CALIBAâs 2025 Golden Poppy Book Award Winner, Poetry
The shadow of mothering has never been given a richer, fuller, more debased vision than in Youna Kwakâs For This and Other Cruelties. Kwak casts a cold eye on the splendid and cruel intransigence of maternal paradoxes in all their impossible double binds, monstrous pleasures, and profane mystifications. Shifting between lyric and prose poems, this collection throws slanted light on the ineffability of our deepest attachments, envisioning a world where mother is âa creature whose only enemy could be human.â Kwak brings us face to face with the irreconcilable facts of being mother, mothered, and alive.
âTo be mother or not to be mother is what I kept questioning as I read through Youna Kwakâs stunning second poetry collectionâhow she muddles as well as mothers the seemingly inconsequential question with her fabulist logic and language. Look carefully, and Kwakâs âbook of the death of the motherâ grows from the messed-up, bloody bed of race, class, gender, and nation. Kwakâs âmotherâ is not unlike Kim Hyesoonâs âmommyâ in that they perpetually mutate and survive, tragically or not, under the same moon, the same shredded tongue, the same global warfare.ââDon Mee Choi, author, DMZ Colony
âThe first time I saw Youna Kwak read, she levitated. It mustâve been the force of poetry, the intensity of its expression, lifting her off the floor. Now, a lifetime later, I can see the nature of her gravity more clearly. For This and Other Cruelties casts diamond lights (or nettled shadows) on the poetâs (daughterâs, descendantâs) attempt to disburden herself of the weight of inheritance, and on the casualties, configured here as cruelties, of achieving it. Kwakâs heartbreaking grammar of relations and her antigravity of survival overwhelm me with what I, too, must do to fulfill my familial and poetic obligations.ââBrandon Shimoda, author, The Afterlife is Letting Go
âIn this stunning collection, Kwak guides her reader toward the deepest levels of empathy and understanding. Fixing her gaze on the two-headed serpent of domesticity and generational trauma, this is a poet in hot pursuit of new forms, new modes of belonging, new horizons of choice. âWe had none of us chosen our mothers,â she writes, âour cramped apartments, our bullies or fathers, our stupid haircuts, what we ate, what we wore, and yet here we were, doggedly alive, alike as kin . . . pressing obdurately forward toward burnished human form.âââRob Schlegel, author, The Lesser Fields
ââI canât show you what I refuse to know and canât save what / I refuse to see,â writes Youna Kwak in her fierce, brilliant new book. Kwak is prepared to show and save, adept as she is at finding processes by which to bring forth elusive ideas and emotions. Each of the bookâs sections seem birthed from a new approach, including truncated prose-like paragraphs that explore likeness and difference in relation to race, class, gender, and family; sinuous sentences that lean on sound, syntax, and humor, where the familial and community roles we chooseâor that are chosen for usâare deepened, questioned, resisted, and re-made. The bookâs first poem begins, âI am preparing to write a book / about the death of the mother.â I love the unnerving music of Kwakâs poetry, its range, its riveting intelligence, and the ways it hooks an acute consciousness of mortality to the universeâs grand indifference.ââMichele Glazer, author, On Tact, & the Made Up World